Complaints? Y do so many ppl like to complaints even though we know tt it wont even help in situations at times?

hmmm...really learnt this over the years that complaints are really something that can bring ppl closer, esp to close friend...like how i will complaint to my bestie and cheng hui. REcently was incessently nagged by parents till i begin to question whether it was my problem or wat... In unbearable situations like that, i really wan to COMPLAINT. BUT,WAT IS THE USE OF COMPLAINING!

Do you know that bitterness can be v infectious? n Complaint is one of the catalyts..

but DO STOP COMPLAINTING STOP UR PROBLEMS? no/.

i did two things...n it seem to working: one is to sit down n c all the angles of my problem. Turn out going in circles. hai. Second is to go for a jog...it helps...one of my best way to destress ba. guess wat...still bitter wat.

u noe wat, actually all of us noe the best way to stop wanting to complaint. REALLY. is to see the reasons behind y problems happen. I know i'm saying it until everything is v easy to settle, it's like:

Problem+ Know the reaons behind = Stop complaining.

After writting tis much, i just only want to tell you all and myself something... dun stop complainting just for the sake of bluffing urself u dun nid to complaint...BE STRONG and determine, do something that will stop u fr the urge of complaining. if u think complaint is a must, den go ahead n do so...a friend will listen to you one...but oso dun complaint too much lah, starting solving the root cause.!

that all folks.=D

Shalom in me(-.-)
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